I was really surprised when I learnt about ‘ The Instant Reconnect Technique’ which I got in the link below this article. That is so important to be able to do that on the first date. It will also help me to judge how things are going – all depends on my ex’s reaction. Here are some other things I have learnt about what to do on that first date.
Tip 1. Up to now it has gone really well but there are a few things I have to remember about how to end the date. I do not want to mess it all up and ruin my hard work. I want to leave on a high note and making sure that we both want to see each other again. The best way to do that is to finish the date when we are both having a great time.
Tip 2. I am going to tell my ex what a great time we have had and I am NOT going to ask him/her for another date ! Simple ! I am giving off so many positive vibes that it is obvious I have moved on. My ex is going to be really impressed with my makeover. If my ex asks me for another date, I am certainly going to accept but I am not pushing anything here.
Tip 3. I thought a lot about this one . What if ….my ex wants to talk about why we broke up. Best advice I got from the site below is to let them talk about it and then move on. I am not going to get defensive or even persuade them they are wrong. It is time to move on.
Tip 4. I have got some great one liners too from the site below especially if my ex insists on talking about the past. I must remember though to make sure that the meeting does not go on too long …. We have agreed a time limit and I am going to stick to it. There is also a very neat way of closing off that subject which I reckon will work 99% of the time.
Tip 5. Another week to wait. I just do not want to rush things. If my ex calls me and wants to fix a second date then that is fine by me. But if s/he hasn’t called me after a week, then I can try and set up another date.
The last tip I learnt is really important because it is going to help me link with her/him emotionally and that is going to be so important in getting my ex back. The site below teaches me just how to set that sort of date up where that strong ‘shared experience’ is going to be key in winning back my ex. I never realized the importance of an emotionally charged date. Also the idea of the three or different locations is something I would never have thought of on my own.
